Another Question on Grammar
A reader asks: Re: the phrase “where we’re at”. Is it grammatically incorrect and should be “where we are”? And did I get the period and question mark right?
The phrases “where we’re at, where it’s at,” etc. are all incorrect in formal English. But personally, I think people make a bigger deal out of this than they should, especially given that this whole construction arose in the 1960, especially in song lyrics, some of which remain immensely popular today, e.g., Bob Dylan’s “Like a Rolling Stone, an excerpt from which is:
You used to ride on a chrome horse with your diplomat
Who carried on his shoulder a Siamese cat Ain’t it hard when you discovered that He really wasn’t where it’s at After he took from you everything he could stealI can imagine sitting with a cold martini watching a fantastic sunset and telling my friends, “Ya know? This is really where it’s at” — knowing that they all would understand that I would not write like that in a business proposal.
To answer your other question, most pieces of punctuation, i,e., commas, question marks, and periods, come before quotation marks, where colons and semicolons come after. Thus, the following are correct:
“Vote your conscience,” I told him.
“Do you really mean it?”
“Absolutely.”
Here’s a “rule of thumb”: don’t eat before bed.
He told me not to call him “Shirley”; he said he’d punch me if I did.