Being Trusted

Lying may be the only thing he’s good at, but give him credit, he’s intensely good at it.

Lying may be the only thing he’s good at, but give him credit, he’s intensely good at it.

The phrases “where we’re at, where it’s at,” etc. are all incorrect in formal English. But personally, I think people make a bigger deal out of this than they should, especially given that this whole construction arose in the 1960, especially in song lyrics, some of which remain immensely popular today, e.g., Bob Dylan’s “Like a Rolling Stone, an excerpt from which is:
You used to ride on a chrome horse with your diplomatWho carried on his shoulder a Siamese catAin’t it hard when you discovered thatHe really wasn’t where it’s atAfter he took from you everything he could steal
I can imagine sitting with a cold martini watching a fantastic sunset and telling my friends, “Ya know? This is really where it’s at” — knowing that they all would understand that I would not write like that in a business proposal.
To answer your other question, most pieces of punctuation, i,e., commas, question marks, and periods, come before quotation marks, where colons and semicolons come after. Thus, the following are correct:
“Vote your conscience,” I told him.
“Do you really mean it?”
“Absolutely.”
Here’s a “rule of thumb”: don’t eat before bed.
He told me not to call him “Shirley”; he said he’d punch me if I did.
A reader asks: In today’s fast paced world, the idea is to get to the point (as quickly) as possible. Is it wrong to cut words out of a sentence as long as the message is clear and understood?
Along comes a guy with hundreds of billions of dollars. Who is he? What is he like? Is he going to end world hunger? Disease? Climate change?
No! A few years later, we learn the horrible truth. He’s an asshole! He’s going to try to destroy wokeness and empathy for others.
That’s a serious effing disappointment.

In any case, for at least half a century, political conservatives have been trying to make the case that EVs simply move the noxious emissions associated with transportation from the tailpipe to the power generation plant, essentially replacing petroleum with coal. See graphic below.
The people who have studied this subject honestly and objectively have consistently found that claim is largely untrue, if only due to the technology that removes the greenhouse gases, heavy metals, and radioactive isotope at the power plant. But at this point, however that argument is becoming increasingly difficult to accept, even on the part of people who are, for whatever reason, desperate to do so, because coal is disappearing.

Having said this, the correlation is nowhere near absolute; there are huge and notable exceptions in most of our lives.
So interesting.

There may be, somewhere in our culture, an example of huge corporate profitmaking that doesn’t rely on either a) the natural ignorance of the consumer, or b) deliberate deception on the part of the purveyor, but I can’t think of a single one.

Until the advent of Donald Trump on the U.S. political scene, it was certainly central to our lives as Americans.
From Cicero’s Wikipedia page: An accomplished poet, philosopher, rhetorician, and humorist, Marcus Tullius Cicero (106 BC-43 BC) was also the greatest forensic orator Rome ever produced. But to Cicero, service to the res publica (literally, “the public affair”) was a Roman citizen’s highest duty.

I wouldn’t say that Republicans have no true vision for the U.S. From here, it looks like they’re modeling their thinking after modern-day Hungary: authoritarian, hyper-nationalist, amoral, no compassion for the common person, and anti-science.